Do not judge, or you too will be judged.
For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the
measure you use, it will be measured to you.
Matthew 7:1-2
Would you consider yourself a judgmental person? Where has this self-righteousness we harbor
come from? Jesus instructs us to examine
our own motives and behavior instead of judging others. Often we magnify others’ faults while we
excuse our own. Prayerfully ask God to
reveal to you if you are a judgmental person, if you harbor self-righteous
pride. God desires to transform us to be
women who offer grace and mercy and who lead others to Jesus.
Someone exhibiting a hypocritical, judgmental attitude tears
others down in order to build themselves up.
That is not a very lovely character trait, is it? We must guard ourselves. This judgmental attitude will creep into our
hearts before we realize what it taking place.
Why do you look at the speck of
saw dust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own
eye? How can you say to your brother,
‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in
your own eye? You hypocrite, first take
the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the
speck from your brother’s eye – Matthew 7:3-5.
Why are we more inclined to judge the sins of others while we
overlook our own sin?
Who desires to do things differently? Let’s ask God to help us put away our
judgmental attitudes and love others the way Jesus loved. Author Angela Thomas said, “I have never seen
one heart mended in judgment. It
encourages no one. Receiving sustained
criticism, condemnation, or painful words doesn’t motivate change.” God desires for us to lay down our judgment,
our critical spirit, our negatively.
These have no purpose in the Kingdom of Heaven.
Nowhere in God’s Word are we given permission to condemn
others. Brothers and sisters do not slander one another. Anyone who speaks against a brother or sister
or judges them speaks against the law and judges it. When you judge the law, you are not keeping
it, but sitting in judgment on it. There
is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destroy. But you – who are you to judge you neighbor?
– James 4:11-12
Those with a judgmental spirit seem to harbor anger and
contempt in their hearts. A judgmental
spirit goes hand-in-hand with anger, contempt, and self-righteousness. Today can be the day we choose to lay down
our judgment of others. We will not be
able to do this on our own but with a repentant heart and a true desire, God
will help. Prayerfully ask God to take
away your tendency toward judgment and allow Him to transform your heart.
Professor and author, Dallas Willard, once stated, “We must
beware of believing that it is okay for us to condemn as long as we are
condemning the right things. It is not
so simple as all that. I can trust Jesus
to go into the temple and drive out those who were profiting from religion,
beating them with a rope. I cannot trust
myself to do so.”
Dear Heavenly Father, help us to lay
down our judgmental attitude. Transform
us into women who reflect your mercy, grace, and passion. Help us to come alongside people and usher
them into the presence of God. Reveal to
us what is truly in our hearts.
Transform us LORD. In Jesus Name
I Pray…..Amen.
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